The bank rather seeing you keeping your house than they do. They are in the business of loaning money, not possessing properties. If you are in difficulties making your monthly mortgage payment, talk to them, and work out something with them.
This is only good if the authorized personnel at the bank would give you this promise in writing. Verbal statement means nothing.
To spread out a longer pay-back period can ease the pain of present high monthly payment. This is good as a tool to temporarily cure the money crisis
Financial crises happen to everybody. What is the big deal ? Be brave, and deal with it logically. Be positive, and deal with it with confidence.
The United States Federal Housing Administration (FHA) gives you the latest information on what the government can help.
Go to: http://www.hud.gov/offices/hsg/fhahistory.cfmThey could be your family members, or friends, as long as you feel comfortable talking to them about your situation.
They could be jewelry or antique that you have. If the bank is not interested in them, how about use them as security to borrow money from people you know ?
So many priests I know used to be medical doctors with big houses. They chose to become priests, and donate most of their assets to the church. They can survive, so can you !